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How to tell when you're not valued (worthless)

In life, we all try to seek the approval of the persons around us. We want to be liked, loved, respected, praise and cherished. However, there are some situations where persons will not value you even though some will pretend to value you. For these situations, I will give some tips to help you know when you're not being valued You always have to initiate the conversation. Sure, conversations are good and everything but if you are the one always starting it that should be a major red flag. Conversations are a method in which people share values and attitudes with each other. If you are the one always starting the conversation with your friends or group of colleagues it means that these people do not value anything that you're saying. Sure, they may go with the flow of your conversation but when it comes to giving their input it is often short and to the point, as to end the conversation quickly. This manoeuvre is used to get out of your way as soon as possible because ...

Lessons to be learned in life

In my life, I have encountered situation that have affected me for the better or worst. Some of these actions, I took now regret later on in my life. So for my younger readers and other in similar, here is my guidance from me to you. Know yourself. Knowing yourself is ideal for survival in today's society. Trying to be like someone else will do nothing but destroy you. Knowing yourself includes coming to realization of your strengths, weakness, likes, dislikes and interest. If people fail to accept you as you are then its best not to be associated with these people. Don't listen to everything that people say. Often person may things which they may hold as ideal and important or necessary for survival. These views are called opinions. Opinions have no basis to be applied to real life as open it comes from the individual's perspective and truly some people have a distorted perspective of life. A better option to stand on is factual information or following your gut instinc...

The Government of Jamaica does not care about you

Attention people. The Government of Jamaica does not care about you. Its desires are not for the people but rather for its own upliftment. You are merely pawn in its chess game. Think about it. From Independence until now there hasn't been any progress to development. The country is still struggling with the same issues from forty years ago and the leaders are telling us they have the solution. But where is it? Crime is increasing everyday, unemployment is rising and the education system is still broken ( in fact I've met more uneducated people than educated in my lifetime). Yet they say the country is improving. The truth is the government has no interest in our nation's development and it is time we hold them accountable for their actions. Too many times we hear of scandals with top ranking politicians being swept under the rug but if you were to commit any small infraction, you'd be severely punished without mercy. The Government needs to be placed under the microsco...

My analyst of Men

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In my last article, I talked about my analyst about women. It was mainly about how women are nowadays. However, after some readers reviewing my article, It seem that there was a bit of bias that was being convey to the women. Therefore to remain impartial, here is the rebuttal of my previous article. Men tend to be social loners. Even though  some men tend to have a lot of male and female friends, more than often they tend to spend most of their time alone. Any problem that they encounter they are usually expected to solve them on their own. Men don't tend to have a support structure as females have and this can lead them into very dangerous circumstances and situations. Men are masters of laziness. Men can be in a room with nothing to do and within a few moments come up with the most entertaining experience in their entire life whether it be a crazy game, epic conversations or some amazing idea. For women having, nothing to do will be nothing but torture for them as they f...

My Analyst of Women

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From a young age, men had very difficult time understanding women. Men have been able to solve complex algebra, calculus, visit space and develop theories of the universe. However, when comes to dealing with women, we are puzzled of what is going true their minds. But never to fear, I am hear to save the day for my fellowmen. Recently, I have been doing some observations of the female behavior and interactions. These are my findings. Females are all about image. Females are very careful about the image the image that they portray to their surroundings. They try their best to look the best in any environment which they are in. To them anything that doesn't have a good image in their eyes is garbage. This can be seen in the world of fashion and beauty. Women always try to keep up with the latest trends in makeup, fashion and style. Even in their relationships, women will always try to find the man with the right image that suits them. This image may be wealthy, strength, beauty o...